I don't know if it makes you feel any better, but I would much rather be where I am (33 with no kids) than 20 with 3 kids and knocked up again. The long-term outlook for her is not so good, if you believe the statistics.
I completely agree with Cassandra, although I'm 39, not 33. I still know that I could possibly adopt at some point, if I ever remarried.
I know women who have had that many kids that young, and it's not an easy thing. Heck, it can be hard even when you're older... depends on your circumstances. Try not to be too envious of her!!
Fuck is the right word.
ReplyDeleteI'm angry and really upset for you hun.
Seriously has this girl not heard of contraception?
4 kids under the age of 21? Hmmmm trying not to judge....sorry if I've offended you sweetheart.xx
#4? WTF?
ReplyDeleteI don't know if it makes you feel any better, but I would much rather be where I am (33 with no kids) than 20 with 3 kids and knocked up again. The long-term outlook for her is not so good, if you believe the statistics.
Nonetheless, that is so sucky for you. Blaaagh!
So sorry. I know this destroys you. ((hugs))
ReplyDeleteBloody hell.
ReplyDeleteJust wrong. In so many ways. Such a fucked up situation and I'm so sorry you have to deal with it at all Bec. Sending you lots of love and hugs xoxo
ReplyDeleteI completely agree with Cassandra, although I'm 39, not 33. I still know that I could possibly adopt at some point, if I ever remarried.
ReplyDeleteI know women who have had that many kids that young, and it's not an easy thing. Heck, it can be hard even when you're older... depends on your circumstances. Try not to be too envious of her!!